A DONATION HAS BEEN MADE IN YOUR NAME
ALLISON SCHRAGER | THE MICROPHILANTHROPIST | January 7th 2008
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When making holiday gifts, we spend small sums of money to buy shows of affection. But find a mechanism by which others can benefit from the transaction, and we have, with luck, increased the sum of human happiness ...
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My Christmas gifts included a charitable donation made in my name, which got me thinking: in what sense was this a gift to me? I don't encourage gifts and I'm not in serious need of anything that anyone might give me. Of course I can see it is more efficient for the money to go to a good cause, rather than to something I do not want or need. However, the cynical side of me was tempted, while writing my thank you note, to add "I am glad my gift could also contribute to your tax write-off."
I have unwittingly forgone a gift, for the benefit a charity of the giver's choosing. Something about this feels presumptuous. Much as I appreciate the gesture, I sense an imposition. I believe the intention of my benefactor--beyond supporting the charity--is to give me an awareness of the favoured cause, thus inspiring future voluntary donations. But this has not happened; I have been left feeling even a touch resentful, and with no greater knowledge of the cause. The card gave little enough information about the charity, beyond the amount donated in my name. What would have been a more effective way to achieve the goal?
One of the ways a microphilanthropist can be most effective, is by maximising the positive externalities from giving. Suppose you can only spare $100 a year. That may not be a life-changing donation. But if your support encourages your friends to give generously too, that $100 becomes more meaningful. Encouraging the people in your life to give to the causes you care about means striking a fine balance. You may do more harm than good if you boast about your generosity, preach to your friends, and impose your cause on them. When I encounter this behaviour, I am liable to react against the cause.
So what might be a more appealing and effective way of substituting donations for personal gifts? A better model might be one in which the prospective recipient suggests to the prospective gift-giver that, instead of buying a conventional gift, the giver makes a donation in in the recipient's name to the recipient's preferred charity. That forces the giver to seek out the charity, visit its web site, and in so doing learn more about what it does. Perhaps it inspires the giver to adopt the charity as one of his own favourite causes, perhaps even introduces him to the habit of charitable giving in general.
It also sets an example that others can easily follow. Many "givers", having been made party to such an arrangement, would surely suggest a reciprocal arrangement, taking care of the other half of the conventional exchange of gifts. The practice could spread easily within a family or an office, with or without a bit of encouragement. That way it becomes a strategy for raising awareness of multiple causes and potentially generating more donations for them.
In sum, the holiday season often inspires goodwill. Our job as microphilanthropists is to find ways of leveraging that goodwill. Gift giving provides the perfect ritual. People are resigned to expending small sums of money in exchange for affection. Find them a mechanism by which others can benefit too, and we have, with luck, increased the sum of human happiness.
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donation made in your name gift
February 10, 2008 - 17:28 — Nancy (not verified)I really do not like receiving such gifts. I find it condesending. I don't even want a gift from this family member. May be some pictures of the kids would be nice and what could that cost. If someone is so inclined to donate than why not just send a note and say "in lieu of presents we have decided to donate to blah blah blah." But to say I am donating in your name just irks me. I find it lazy. It is as if didn't have time to shop so I'll just run in and out of a store and just grab something and send it. It seems very disconnected to me. The ironic thing is, is that they receive a gift every year from a grandmother that is more than an average person spends on Christmas presents for years. One year I received a gift that cost 25 cents. Should I just tell them to stop or keep my mouth shut and throw their card away every year.
donation made in your name gift
November 30, 2008 - 16:16 — Visitor (not verified)You sound very selfish. You should be grateful that this person thought of you in this way. I am thinking that they thought you would appreciate forgoing your own gift to give someone who is in more need of it that you are. You should be happy that they thought you were a good person. Don't forget the reason for the season!
Tammy
I agree
December 10, 2008 - 21:35 — Visitor (not verified)I totally agree with your feelings about the donations "made in your name." The "gift" giver gets the tax deduction and gets to choose the charity - not even necessarily one you would choose to support. Yes, the donation presumably went to a good cause, but please don't try to pass this off as a gift to me. I would rather they let go of the pretenses and just didn't get me a gift. It is great that they support charitable causes and I do, too, throughout the year. The act of someone making their own donation to their preferred charity and then putting a note in a card saying they did it as a gift to me is bogus.
I feel sorry for you that
December 15, 2008 - 12:05 — Visitor (not verified)I feel sorry for you that you can't see past your own selfishness and accept the gift graciously as it was intended to make you feel good about forgoing receiving some useless trinket. I agree with the previous comment that they probably thought you were a better person than you sound like here.
The bright side
December 23, 2008 - 11:27 — Visitor (not verified)How disillusioning to read that people aren't happy about donations as gift. This is what we are doing this year... each charity thoughtfully planned out based on the relative; whether it is to research a disease they are afflicted with or to donate to an organization that they also donate to. In the end, I'd rather give a gift that will be appreciated, instead of providing an hour of entertainment and being tossed aside. I would be thrilled if someone donated in my name, as long as it was a purpose that I could support.
A donation made in your name...
December 31, 2008 - 06:06 — cgp (not verified)It seems to me that if a person wishes to make a donation to a charity (whether they get a tax break or not) is entirely up to them. It should not be used as a proxy for a gift. The only time I think it appropriate for a donation to be made in someone's name is at their funeral, in lieu of flowers.
I'm very hard to buy for...
December 31, 2008 - 23:36 — Crash (not verified)so when my sister started giving me donations to charity(s) I was really delighted. What's a twenty dollar gift card going to do for me? But $20 donated to a homeless kitchen can feed 12 to 15 people. That's a gift I really enjoy.
DONATIONS
August 11, 2009 - 11:02 — Visitor (not verified)I think giving away a donation to a recognized organization (ex. the Canadian Cancer Society) is a great wedding favour. People never really care what the favour is and some people leave it at the reception. This way, at least your favour is NOT a waste of the couples money, and it generally is appreciated by people that are attending. Another option is not only giving a donation, but also with that donation attaching a canister of mints or another small gesture to Thank your guests.